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石榴情緣

2025-04-29 13:43:32 阅读(90)

作者 楊强

在河北老家的院子裡,北房台階兩旁種著兩棵非常對稱的石榴樹。媽媽說:「石榴是吉祥樹,種在庭院會給咱家帶來好運,春天開滿一樹紅艷艷的花,秋天結滿一樹紅艷艷的果。」大家都稱石榴是富貴果,因為它象徵多子多福,家大業大,人人羨慕眼饞,都說那是大戶人家才有的吉祥樹,好風水。奇怪的是,全村沒有第二家有石榴樹。

老家石榴難保厄運

但是,石榴樹並沒有給童年的我家帶來好運。我的親奶奶雖然長得俊秀,可惜不是門當戶對的大戶人家出身,她不擅長做針線活,更不會繡花。在她生下我大姑和我爸後,有了兒女,還是經常受到婆婆冷言冷語虐待,她很想盡量做好,得到婆婆的認可。有一次,她給婆婆做了一雙繡花鞋,繡的就是石榴花。婆婆不滿意,扔回她面前,並說了很多難聽話。我的親奶奶絕望的上吊自殺了。

後來,爺爺娶進一位門當戶對的後奶奶,生了兩兒一女,就是我的二姑和兩個叔叔。後奶奶一手遮天,大姑和我爸只好離開老家,到北平去上學。老家那兩棵石榴樹只見開花結果,可我從來也沒有品嚐過石榴的滋味,大概是都讓後奶奶和她的兒女吃了。


等我記事後再回到老家,祖父、祖母都已不在人世。但是,那兩棵非常對稱的石榴樹仍然活著,照樣開花結果。看見那兩棵石榴樹,我就想起親奶奶,我爸為了懷念母親,始終保存著那雙繡花鞋。我媽進了楊家門,聽到親奶奶的故事,就在無形的壓力下努力學好繡花,特別要繡好石榴花。

石榴肚兜睹物思人

日寇佔領華北,實行「殺光、燒光、搶光」三光政策。為了躲避日本鬼子,姥姥、我媽和我姨都逃到北平,同住在皇城根的一個四合院裡。可巧院中也有一棵石榴樹,但這棵石榴樹也沒有給我家帶來好運。八年抗日的漫長歲月,我們受苦、逃難、躲飛機轟炸、跑防空洞是家常便飯,人整天生活在恐懼當中。

日本投降後三年內戰,姥姥給我姨繡了一個石榴圖案的肚兜包,讓我姨姨把她的首飾細軟、一切貴重值錢寶貝全藏在這貼身的肚兜內,我姨和姨父、表妹一起遠走台灣,從此海峽兩岸的親人分隔在兩個世界。兒行千里母擔憂,姥姥給姨繡的石榴肚兜,臨行密密縫,一針一線皆是寓意祝福她吉祥平安。

可是天不隨人願。姨把肚兜錢包藏在天花板之上,被小偷偷走錢包內貴重寶物,只留下那個繡著石榴的肚兜。就這個肚兜,讓姨看見就想起姥姥,想起姥姥就落淚。姨的眼淚流了數十年,好不容易返回北京探親,見到的卻是姥姥的骨灰盒,肝腸寸斷。

美國石榴開花結果

來美後,和我一起打工的張先生見面有緣。他來自台灣和我這來自大陸的人素不相識,卻有說不完的話,讓我到他家喝茶聊天,請我吃牛肉麵。見到他家有棵石榴樹,因為從小留下的石榴情緣,讓我興奮不已,沒想到美國也有石榴樹!

我控制不住自己的激動,馬上開口要一棵石榴樹苗,張先生卻大方送我兩棵樹苗。在我的精心護理下,再加上加州的陽光燦爛,土地肥沃,石榴小樹苗長的飛快。春天,一樹石榴紅花千朵,多情的石榴花,花型獨特,配上波浪般的裙花邊,在亮麗翠綠葉子陪襯下,更顯得嬌艷欲滴,招蜂引蝶,連螞蟻都來一親芳澤,難怪有「拜倒在石榴裙下」的浪漫美言。我閒來無事時,喜歡細細欣賞石榴樹,一棵樹上同時有待開的花苞、盛開的花朵、成型的小石榴,美不勝收,令人流連忘返。


儘管現在溫室效應,全球氣候變暖,南加州今夏特別嚴熱,一點雨絲也不飄落。而且,洛杉磯的松鼠氾濫成災,每天明目張膽來樹上,忙著掏空一個一個的果實,松鼠跳來跳去,啃得不亦樂乎。為了和松鼠爭奪石榴,我和太太從超市索取包裝水晶梨的白塑料網套,套在劫後餘生的石榴上,也幸虧石榴樹多枝又多刺,用它頑強的生命力繼續努力結果,還是有很多又大又甜的果實供我們享用。晶瑩剔透的石榴籽在美國也是感恩節、聖誕節與新年期間烹調傳統西式節慶料理的最佳配料,既美味又增色。我原以為只有中國人對石榴情有獨鍾呢。

石榴相傳是在西漢時由張騫引入中國的,張騫還從西域帶回大蒜、葡萄、香菜、胡瓜。原來石榴最早來自西域,這真要感謝張騫的遠見,感謝絲綢之路。過去拜倒在石榴裙下,是欣賞美色。現在拜倒在石榴裙下,是因為石榴太有營養價值,石榴汁中富含多種獨特的抗氧化劑,有助於提高認知力和記憶力。多吃石榴多長壽。


金秋來臨之際,望著院中樹上垂掛著一個個鮮艷艷的大紅石榴,就像大紅燈籠高高掛,真是惹人喜愛。往事在腦海中一幕一幕浮現,滄海桑田,物是人非。我的石榴情緣,讓我除了感慨,還是感慨!

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article------>{"id":180,"cid":3,"subCid":"","title":"石榴情緣","shortTitle":"","tagId":"","attr":"1,2","articleView":"","source":"","author":"","description":"","img":"","content":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">作者 楊强</span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><img src=\"/public/uploads/default/2025/03/24/1742799211211_source_Screenshot_20250321_184718_Gallery.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"396\" height=\"717\" style=\"display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"></span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">在河北老家的院子裡,北房台階兩旁種著兩棵非常對稱的石榴樹。媽媽說:「石榴是吉祥樹,種在庭院會給咱家帶來好運,春天開滿一樹紅艷艷的花,秋天結滿一樹紅艷艷的果。」大家都稱石榴是富貴果,因為它象徵多子多福,家大業大,人人羨慕眼饞,都說那是大戶人家才有的吉祥樹,好風水。奇怪的是,全村沒有第二家有石榴樹。</span></p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"> </span></p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">老家石榴難保厄運</span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">但是,石榴樹並沒有給童年的我家帶來好運。我的親奶奶雖然長得俊秀,可惜不是門當戶對的大戶人家出身,她不擅長做針線活,更不會繡花。在她生下我大姑和我爸後,有了兒女,還是經常受到婆婆冷言冷語虐待,她很想盡量做好,得到婆婆的認可。有一次,她給婆婆做了一雙繡花鞋,繡的就是石榴花。婆婆不滿意,扔回她面前,並說了很多難聽話。我的親奶奶絕望的上吊自殺了。</span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><img src=\"/public/uploads/default/2025/03/24/1742799256228_source_mceu_59888081961742799256232.jpg\" width=\"396\" height=\"717\" style=\"display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"></span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">後來,爺爺娶進一位門當戶對的後奶奶,生了兩兒一女,就是我的二姑和兩個叔叔。後奶奶一手遮天,大姑和我爸只好離開老家,到北平去上學。老家那兩棵石榴樹只見開花結果,可我從來也沒有品嚐過石榴的滋味,大概是都讓後奶奶和她的兒女吃了。</span></p>\n<p><br><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">等我記事後再回到老家,祖父、祖母都已不在人世。但是,那兩棵非常對稱的石榴樹仍然活著,照樣開花結果。看見那兩棵石榴樹,我就想起親奶奶,我爸為了懷念母親,始終保存著那雙繡花鞋。我媽進了楊家門,聽到親奶奶的故事,就在無形的壓力下努力學好繡花,特別要繡好石榴花。</span></p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"> </span></p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">石榴肚兜睹物思人</span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">日寇佔領華北,實行「殺光、燒光、搶光」三光政策。為了躲避日本鬼子,姥姥、我媽和我姨都逃到北平,同住在皇城根的一個四合院裡。可巧院中也有一棵石榴樹,但這棵石榴樹也沒有給我家帶來好運。八年抗日的漫長歲月,我們受苦、逃難、躲飛機轟炸、跑防空洞是家常便飯,人整天生活在恐懼當中。</span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><img src=\"/public/uploads/default/2025/03/24/1742799293880_source_mceu_54001852471742799293920.jpg\" width=\"396\" height=\"717\"></span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">日本投降後三年內戰,姥姥給我姨繡了一個石榴圖案的肚兜包,讓我姨姨把她的首飾細軟、一切貴重值錢寶貝全藏在這貼身的肚兜內,我姨和姨父、表妹一起遠走台灣,從此海峽兩岸的親人分隔在兩個世界。兒行千里母擔憂,姥姥給姨繡的石榴肚兜,臨行密密縫,一針一線皆是寓意祝福她吉祥平安。</span></p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">可是天不隨人願。姨把肚兜錢包藏在天花板之上,被小偷偷走錢包內貴重寶物,只留下那個繡著石榴的肚兜。就這個肚兜,讓姨看見就想起姥姥,想起姥姥就落淚。姨的眼淚流了數十年,好不容易返回北京探親,見到的卻是姥姥的骨灰盒,肝腸寸斷。</span></p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"> </span></p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">美國石榴開花結果</span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">來美後,和我一起打工的張先生見面有緣。他來自台灣和我這來自大陸的人素不相識,卻有說不完的話,讓我到他家喝茶聊天,請我吃牛肉麵。見到他家有棵石榴樹,因為從小留下的石榴情緣,讓我興奮不已,沒想到美國也有石榴樹!</span></p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">我控制不住自己的激動,馬上開口要一棵石榴樹苗,張先生卻大方送我兩棵樹苗。在我的精心護理下,再加上加州的陽光燦爛,土地肥沃,石榴小樹苗長的飛快。春天,一樹石榴紅花千朵,多情的石榴花,花型獨特,配上波浪般的裙花邊,在亮麗翠綠葉子陪襯下,更顯得嬌艷欲滴,招蜂引蝶,連螞蟻都來一親芳澤,難怪有「拜倒在石榴裙下」的浪漫美言。我閒來無事時,喜歡細細欣賞石榴樹,一棵樹上同時有待開的花苞、盛開的花朵、成型的小石榴,美不勝收,令人流連忘返。</span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><img src=\"/public/uploads/default/2025/03/24/1742799323604_source_mceu_95175466781742799323646.jpg\" width=\"396\" height=\"717\" style=\"display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\"></span></p>\n<p> </p>\n<p><br><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">儘管現在溫室效應,全球氣候變暖,南加州今夏特別嚴熱,一點雨絲也不飄落。而且,洛杉磯的松鼠氾濫成災,每天明目張膽來樹上,忙著掏空一個一個的果實,松鼠跳來跳去,啃得不亦樂乎。為了和松鼠爭奪石榴,我和太太從超市索取包裝水晶梨的白塑料網套,套在劫後餘生的石榴上,也幸虧石榴樹多枝又多刺,用它頑強的生命力繼續努力結果,還是有很多又大又甜的果實供我們享用。晶瑩剔透的石榴籽在美國也是感恩節、聖誕節與新年期間烹調傳統西式節慶料理的最佳配料,既美味又增色。我原以為只有中國人對石榴情有獨鍾呢。</span></p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">石榴相傳是在西漢時由張騫引入中國的,張騫還從西域帶回大蒜、葡萄、香菜、胡瓜。原來石榴最早來自西域,這真要感謝張騫的遠見,感謝絲綢之路。過去拜倒在石榴裙下,是欣賞美色。現在拜倒在石榴裙下,是因為石榴太有營養價值,石榴汁中富含多種獨特的抗氧化劑,有助於提高認知力和記憶力。多吃石榴多長壽。</span></p>\n<p><br><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\">金秋來臨之際,望著院中樹上垂掛著一個個鮮艷艷的大紅石榴,就像大紅燈籠高高掛,真是惹人喜愛。往事在腦海中一幕一幕浮現,滄海桑田,物是人非。我的石榴情緣,讓我除了感慨,還是感慨!</span></p>","status":0,"pv":90,"link":"","createdAt":"2025-03-24T06:48:49.000Z","updatedAt":"2025-04-29T05:43:32.000Z","field":{}}

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