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左鄰右舍(散文)

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作者楊強

讀者感言:「小文章有大世界,勾勒了人生冷暖、傷悲及無奈,令人沉思,好文章,高!」

讀者感言:「舉重若輕,有情味但不濫情,只有經歷相當人生歷練者能為之,高手之作。」

我的鄰居是日本人,有一兒一女,結婚另立新家,只有周末才來看望老倆口。老先生的英文純正,沒有口音,大概是在美國出生的。

他們養了一隻拳師狗,有人走過,牠就突然大叫,嚇人一跳。牠不但大叫,還一路追著跳,跳得比圍牆還高,行人心驚膽顫,於是男主人就用他宏亮的聲音教訓狗,我相信住在這一條街的人都能聽得見。這樣聲音宏亮的人,突然有一天躺在擔架被推上救護車,再也沒見回來。

他原本健壯賢慧的老婆,突然瘦小了一圈,原來烏溜溜的頭髮一下蒼白了一半,腰彎了,背也駝了。家中換成小白獅子狗,她每天蹓狗得拄上枴杖,拐扙點地,發出孤寂單調的噠噠聲,迴蕩在街上。

過去我們很少打招呼,現在每回見面總要聊上幾句,逗逗她那可愛的小白獅子狗。小狗親熱地撲上我腿,且不忘在我家院門前撒尿,留下中日友好的記號。我想她很寂寞、無聊,一個人住在那麼大的獨立屋,所以她整天屋內都開著燈,放著音樂。後來兒子為了孝敬母親,每晚放學讓十幾歲的孫子來給她作伴。

我從她身上體會到「少年夫妻老來伴」,難怪有人說,能互相扶持,一同慢慢變老,是人生莫大的幸福。

住在這條街頭有位苗條的廣東小姐,每天早晚都提著錄音機,經過我家去公園。 公園多是一群人集體作操跳舞,只有她一人好似獨行俠,單槍匹馬打太極拳。

有一天我在院子澆水,她正好路過和我聊天。原來,她來美國後,一直在餐館打工,沒病沒災存了些錢,正準備結婚時,檢查出乳癌,住院開刀割去了一個乳房,由於沒有買醫療保險,把存的錢都花了,未婚夫也跑了。現在母親又住進療養院裡,這是她唯一的親人,她不想再找對象、再找工作,只想盡心盡力把母親侍候好。她不管日曬雨淋,每天都穿得乾乾淨淨,打著傘走路去給母親送去她親手做的可口飯菜,還要給她把屎把尿,擦洗身體、換洗衣服。

我問: 「你為什麼不開車呢?」她說:「療養院離家不遠,我走路也是為了鍛鍊身體。」醫生告訴她,如果不堅持鍛鍊,將來她也會得母親的癱瘓病。有人說她曾是唱粵劇的,她的一舉一動都透出演員的藝術氣質。這也許是她找對象高不成、低不就的原因。

我家對街拐角住著一位白人老太太,聽街坊四鄰說,她年輕時很時髦,有幾任丈夫,也有幾個兒女;現在老了,丈夫不在了,兒女也不管她,最多有的每年聖誕節來應付一下,有的兒女乾脆一年到頭也不來看望她。

幸虧她的鄰居是位退休的FBI,一接電話馬上跑過來,開車帶她看醫生、做檢查,甚至她住醫院都日夜陪著她,她被感動得痛哭,真是遠親不如近鄰。她請律師寫下遺書,「為我養老送終,這棟獨立屋歸你。」

没有血緣關係的FBI,每天為她買菜做飯,最後把她送進玫瑰崗靈園,成了她這棟獨立屋的主人。這時兒女們都來爭財產,FBI只好請律師來解決紛爭。

人生有淒涼、悲痛,也有溫暖、深情。我的左鄰右舍正是這大千世界的縮影。(完)

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font-size: 20px;\">讀者感言:</span><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\">「舉重若輕,有情味但不濫情,只有經歷相當人生歷練者能為之,高手之作。」</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> 我的鄰居是日本人,有一兒一女,結婚另立新家,只有周末才來看望老倆口。老先生的英文純正,沒有口音,大概是在美國出生的。</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> 他們養了一隻拳師狗,有人走過,牠就突然大叫,嚇人一跳。牠不但大叫,還一路追著跳,跳得比圍牆還高,行人心驚膽顫,於是男主人就用他宏亮的聲音教訓狗,我相信住在這一條街的人都能聽得見。這樣聲音宏亮的人,突然有一天躺在擔架被推上救護車,再也沒見回來。</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> 他原本健壯賢慧的老婆,突然瘦小了一圈,原來烏溜溜的頭髮一下蒼白了一半,腰彎了,背也駝了。家中換成小白獅子狗,她每天蹓狗得拄上枴杖,拐扙點地,發出孤寂單調的噠噠聲,迴蕩在街上。</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> 過去我們很少打招呼,現在每回見面總要聊上幾句,逗逗她那可愛的小白獅子狗。小狗親熱地撲上我腿,且不忘在我家院門前撒尿,留下中日友好的記號。我想她很寂寞、無聊,一個人住在那麼大的獨立屋,所以她整天屋內都開著燈,放著音樂。後來兒子為了孝敬母親,每晚放學讓十幾歲的孫子來給她作伴。</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> 我從她身上體會到「少年夫妻老來伴」,難怪有人說,能互相扶持,一同慢慢變老,是人生莫大的幸福。</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> </span>住在這條街頭有位苗條的廣東小姐,每天早晚都提著錄音機,經過我家去公園。</span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\"> </span><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\">公園多是一群人集體作操跳舞,只有她一人好似獨行俠,單槍匹馬打太極拳。</span></span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> 有一天我在院子澆水,她正好路過和我聊天。原來,她來美國後,一直在餐館打工,沒病沒災存了些錢,正準備結婚時,檢查出乳癌,住院開刀割去了一個乳房,由於沒有買醫療保險,把存的錢都花了,未婚夫也跑了。現在母親又住進療養院裡,這是她唯一的親人,她不想再找對象、再找工作,只想盡心盡力把母親侍候好。她不管日曬雨淋,每天都穿得乾乾淨淨,打著傘走路去給母親送去她親手做的可口飯菜,還要給她把屎把尿,擦洗身體、換洗衣服。</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> </span>我問</span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">: </span><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\">「你為什麼不開車呢?」她說:「療養院離家不遠,我走路也是為了鍛鍊身體。」醫生告訴她,如果不堅持鍛鍊,將來她也會得母親的癱瘓病。有人說她曾是唱粵劇的,她的一舉一動都透出演員的藝術氣質。這也許是她找對象高不成、低不就的原因。</span></span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> 我家對街拐角住著一位白人老太太,聽街坊四鄰說,她年輕時很時髦,有幾任丈夫,也有幾個兒女;現在老了,丈夫不在了,兒女也不管她,最多有的每年聖誕節來應付一下,有的兒女乾脆一年到頭也不來看望她。</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> </span>幸虧她的鄰居是位退休的</span><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">FBI</span><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\">,一接電話馬上跑過來,開車帶她看醫生、做檢查,甚至她住醫院都日夜陪著她,她被感動得痛哭,真是遠親不如近鄰。她請律師寫下遺書,「為我養老送終,這棟獨立屋歸你。」</span></span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> </span>没有血緣關係的</span>FBI<span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\">,每天為她買菜做飯,最後把她送進玫瑰崗靈園,成了她這棟獨立屋的主人。這時兒女們都來爭財產,</span>FBI<span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU;\">只好請律師來解決紛爭。</span></span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; font-size: 20px;\"> 人生有淒涼、悲痛,也有溫暖、深情。我的左鄰右舍正是這大千世界的縮影。(完)</span></p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"> </p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: PMingLiU; 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