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作者 南林
在故乡，
“养儿防老”
是镌刻在血脉里的誓言。
父母的守望，
子女的担当，
在柴米油盐的日常中
延续了千百年的光阴。
然而，当这份信条
随风远渡，落在美国，
它便与新的现实悄然对话。
这里有社会保障的臂膀，
有医保与退休金的依靠，
有社区的欢声与养老院的灯火。
父母不必再完全依赖，
子女也不必独自扛起。
制度抚养着身体，
亲情滋养着心灵。
于是，
“养儿防老”有了新的诠释：
不再是沉重的负担，
而是一种双向的守护。
父母学会独立，
子女给予陪伴。
在制度的根基上，
依旧燃亮那份东方的温情。
在美国，
真正的养老，
是一种新的平衡：
让父母不失尊严，
让子女不再为难，
让跨越文化的家庭
在异国他乡，依然心手相连。
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